Psychosomatic diseases like. What is psychosomatics and how is the psyche related to health? Who is in danger of psychosomatic problems?

Problem

Probable cause

Affirmation

In this book, Louise Hay writes that we create all the diseases for ourselves, and we ourselves are able to treat them with our thoughts. Thoughts are material, this is no secret to anyone. But, it’s not enough to know that thoughts are material, you still need to learn to direct them constantly in the right direction, not to allow negative thoughts in your head, to try to always be positive.

With the help of the techniques and affirmations that the author of the book reveals to us, one can gradually get rid of many negative stereotypes that are firmly embedded in our heads and prevent us from living calmly and happily, without disease.

The idea that each disease has its own emotional and psychological causes is far from new. Healers of both the West and the East spoke about this a few millennia ago.

Often using the saying: "A healthy mind lives in a healthy body," we forget about its reverse side. The ability to live a harmonious and measured life, maintaining the balance of the soul and the stability of emotions has the most beneficial effect on the general state of a person’s physical health. Therefore, it is very important to consider both of these components.

It happens that in some diseases a person needs not so much a doctor as a good psychologist or psychotherapist. Literate therapists are well aware of this, it is not for nothing that in their notebook there are always a couple of highly qualified specialists in the field of psychology. The relationship of the state of the human body with its emotional and psychological component is now officially recognized. This relationship is considered in the framework of such a direction of medical psychology as psychosomatics.

Louise Hay as a pioneer in the field of psychosomatics

One of the pioneers in the study of emotional and psychological causes leading to very real physical illnesses of a person is rightfully considered an American Louise Hay. And she argues about such reasons by no means unfounded. It is not surprising that having survived a childhood full of violence, youth with severe stresses, infertility after the forced abandonment of her first child, betrayal by her husband after many years of marriage, Hay was not at all surprised to learn from the doctors that she had uterine cancer.

By that time, Hay had studied metaphysics for quite some time, learned to meditate, and tried to compose her first positive affirmations. Communicating with many visitors to the Church of the Science of the Mind as a lecturer and consultant, she already knew about how old grievances, negative thoughts and unexpressed emotional states, as well as unresolved problems in the past, gradually, step by step, destroy any, even the strongest organism .

Turning to your sources of information,
she realized that such a serious disease as cancer of the uterus did not appear by chance at her, but rather absolutely naturally:

1. Any oncology is always a person devouring, inability to let go of the situation.
2. Uterine diseases indicate a sense of inferiority in the role of a woman, an unconscious abandonment of motherhood, inability to resist humiliation from the sexual partner.

Realizing the causes of her illness, Louise Hay found a powerful tool for healing - affirmations. Thanks to properly selected affirmations, Hay managed to cope with her most serious illness in just three months, and six months later her recovery was officially confirmed by the attending physician and clinical tests.

Since then, Louise Hay has not ceased to share knowledge on how to get rid of any ailments with her like-minded people from all over the world. She travels a lot to different countries with lectures and seminars, speaks on television, leads her own column in a popular magazine. The method of Louise Hay has already helped thousands of people who have managed to change their thinking, and, accordingly, the state of their body.

One of the first books on psychosomatics written by Louise shortly after her recovery was the book “Heal Yourself”, which we will talk about later.

Is it possible to heal yourself?

Louise Hey tried to convey all her knowledge about the causes of diseases, collected during her work as a lecturer and consultant to the Church of Science of the Mind with many visitors, in the little blue book “Heal Your Body”. This book was printed back in 1974 in the amount of only five thousand copies. In this small twelve-sheet brochure, Hay for the first time I tried to compile a table of correspondence of certain diseases and hidden emotional problems leading to them.

Twelve years later, in 1986, an expanded and expanded table of diseases was presented in a new book by Hay, published under the title “Heal Yourself”. This book instantly became a bestseller, and even today it enjoys not passing popularity among readers from all over the world. Other options for reading this book are also available: audiobook and video.
What does the book “Heal Yourself” tell about?

Let's see what in this book makes a huge number of people read and reread it for several decades.

I would like to note that the structure of the book itself is constructed in a rather extraordinary way.

The book begins with a large theoretical section in which Louise Hay analyzes the causes of various diseases. She is deeply convinced that the causes of all diseases are long-standing stereotypes of thinking, subconsciously acquired by a person for a long time, and possibly imposed on him by his parents.

People form these stereotypes of thinking based on negative emotional experience, namely:

• on trauma experienced in childhood;
• on subconscious neglect of one’s needs and dislike of oneself;
• on the condemnation and rejection of man by society;
• on numerous hidden fears and grievances.

Changing the long-standing stereotypes of thinking, often laid down by parents in childhood, a person gets the opportunity to independently build his life, improve his physical, psychological, emotional state.

Psychosomatics can tell a lot about the problems that plague a person.

Here are just a few examples.

• Excess fat in the body is a kind of "protective pillow" from the hostile world. To actively start the process of losing weight, you must first cause a person to feel completely safe. Slimming affirmations do a great job of this.
• Hair loss always indicates acute stress experienced by a person. Stop being nervous and see how it affects your hair condition.
• An allergy indicates your categorical intolerance to something or someone (possibly even yourself). Periodic nausea, which has no objective reasons, also indicates such negative feelings.
• The thyroid and pancreas are associated with experiencing difficult relationships with life itself, its dissatisfaction with its quality.
• Thrush, uterine fibroids and other female diseases usually indicate unresolved sexual problems, resentment of oneself or one's sexual partner.
• Cystitis (inflammation of the bladder) usually occurs in people who constantly restrain their negative emotions and feelings, hesitating to throw them out.
• Stroke - a person has ceased to see joy and positive events in life behind daily chores.
• Hemorrhoids indicate retention problems.
• Through psoriasis, the body sends out signals that a person needs to stop hating himself.
• Cancer can be cured if you can remember and forgive the offense inflicted on you in the past.

According to Haye, any disease is necessary for a certain person for something.
A symptom of an ailment is simply an outward manifestation of emotional problems hidden in the subconscious. In order to get rid of your illness forever, you need to recognize and destroy its emotional cause. Until a person is fully aware of the true causes of his illness, will and discipline will be powerless, since they fight only with the external manifestations of the disease.

The book ends with a large theoretical section in which Hay talks about the unlimited power within us - the ability to change ourselves and the world around us through affirmations, forgiveness and taking responsibility for everything that happens to you.

If with forgiveness and acceptance of responsibility everything is more or less clear, then the concept of affirmation may require additional explanations.
Affirmation (a positive text, composed in a certain way) in the presentation of Louise Hay is a certain starting point that serves as a trigger for launching the necessary changes by taking full responsibility for all situations that happen to you.

In practice, it looks like this:

The more often you work with affirmation, the faster you will notice changes in your psychological and physical condition. More details on affirmations can be found in our article on affirmations.

In addition to the general theoretical section at the very beginning and the final part, the author provides the reader with the opportunity to work independently with their problems.

For this, the book contains:

1. A table of the most common diseases with a description of the likely psychological and emotional causes of their occurrence.
2. A special section on the spine, including:
   • the structure of the spinal column and the consequences of displacements in various parts of the spine;
   • probable emotional causes of spinal curvature, as well as examples of a different way of thinking.
3. The author’s tips on how to develop self-love.
4. A variety of exercises to cure love.
5. Useful affirmations for a healthy body.

Of great interest are also several interviews with Louise Hay, also included in the book. In them, she accessible and with great frankness describes her path to complete healing, her attitude to money, her understanding of love.
If you have been looking for a simple and effective way to improve your health and quality of life for a long time, then the book “Heal Yourself” can be a great help for you in this.

All the methods and exercises that Louise Hay discusses in detail in this book can be applied to any person. Love, forgiveness and affirmations - what could be easier, and why don't you start working with the Hay table right now?

How to work with this table correctly?

In the table below, common diseases in the first column are the names of the diseases in alphabetical order. After reviewing the contents of this table, you can independently understand the emotional and psychological causes for each disease, as well as find a positive affirmation that helps get rid of this disease or symptoms that bother you.

Work with the table in the following order:

What can be done if you did not find your disease in the table or do not agree with the reason given there?

• If the emotional reason for your ailment, which is given in this book, does not fit in your case, then sit quietly for a while, and then ask yourself the question: “Which of my thoughts lead to this?”
• Repeat out loud for yourself: "I really want to get rid of my stereotypes of thinking, which were the causes of my illness."
• Repeat the positive affirmations several times, contributing to the emergence of updated thoughts about the current situation.
• Convince yourself that the healing process is already running, and the result will be visible very soon.

From now on, in those moments when you think about your illness, repeat these steps. It is useful to pronounce positive affirmations daily, because in this way they will gradually form a healthier consciousness, and, accordingly, a healthier body.

It is very important not to forget that without realizing and rethinking your attitude to the situation, to yourself and to the world, nothing will come of you. Words will only remain words. Only having the courage to look at our problem without illusions can we accept it. And the adoption of the existing state of affairs and correctly selected affirmation help our subconscious mind to get rid of your disease in the most effective way.

Numerous positive reviews of people who have long and successfully practiced affirmations testify to the high effectiveness of this method of cure.

Table of common diseases and their psychological causes

Here are just a few of the diseases, the causes of which were described in detail in his book “Heal Yourself,” psychosomatics specialist Louise Hey. In more detail with the causes of these, and many more ailments, you can find in the complete table of illnesses of Louise Hay, given in this book, which has only the most favorable reviews.

Using the positive affirmations given in this table of diseases, you can effectively get rid of health problems, reconsider your attitude to life situations, and, therefore, become much more confident and happier.

In development psychosomatic diseases The main provoking factor is considered psychological.

And it is not for nothing that their characteristic symptoms are similar to signs of somatic diseases:

• often dizzy;
• there is a feeling of general malaise, fatigue;
• body temperature rises, etc.

Psychosomatic problems often manifest stomach ulcer, high blood pressure.

Psychosomatic disease groups

When the patient goes to the doctor with complaints, it becomes necessary to undergo examinations and take tests. This will help him determine the diagnosis and prescribe an effective treatment.

However, if, after the course of therapy, the disease receded, and soon returned again, it can be assumed that its causes are psychosomatic in nature and it is unlikely that it can be completely eliminated with medication.

The list of possible diseases of a psychosomatic nature can be grouped as follows:

1) problems with the respiratory system;

2) diseases of the heart and blood vessels;

3) Eating disorder (obesity, anorexia nervosa, bulimia);

4) Diseases of the gastrointestinal tract;

5) Diseases of the endocrine system;

6) problems with the skin;

7) Diseases associated with gynecology;

8) Disorders of a sexual nature;

9) Oncology;

10) Diseases of an infectious origin;

11) Diseases of the musculoskeletal system;

12) Psychovegetative dysfunction;

13) ;

14) Headache.

The causes of psychosomatic diseases

To determine the possible causes of health problems, there is a table of diseases. How to treat a psychosomatic disease and get rid of its characteristic symptoms, can also be found in such tables.

One of the first who dared to say that all human systems are closely interconnected is Louise Hay.

She suggested that the bad thoughts and emotions that a person has, contribute to the destruction of his body at the physical level and provoke the appearance of diseases. Her theory was also investigated by a famous psychologist and homeopath. Valery Sinelnikov.

There is a table of diseases according to Sinelnikov, using which you can determine the psychosomatics of your diseases and start working on yourself in order to eliminate the psychological factor that provokes it:

1) Headache . It appears as a consequence of the hypocrisy inherent in man.
What is said out loud is very different from real thoughts and feelings. Therefore, a strong nervous tension appears and, as a result, pain in the head;

2) Runny nose . Often his appearance is a symbol of tears. At heart, a person is very depressed and worried, but does not spill out his emotions;

3) Cystitis . After conducting research, Sinelnikov revealed that the psychosomatic nature of cystitis is hidden in anger and irritability to the opposite sex or sexual partner;

4) Cough . The appearance of any disease, accompanied by a strong cough, speaks of the hidden desire of a person to declare himself, to draw attention to his person.
It can also be a response to disagreement with others;

5) Diarrhea . The presence of intense fear and anxiety is reflected in the condition of the intestine. A person feels insecurity in this world and is not ready to fight his fear. That is why a huge number of cases of diarrhea occur before an important and exciting event;

6) Constipation . The delay in the intestines of feces is due to the fact that a person does not want to let go of painful memories from the past, part with unnecessary people or lose a job that he does not like.
Another psychosomatic cause of constipation is stinginess and greed for money;

7) Angina . A person who constantly suffers from diseases of the throat, including sore throat, keeps emotions and anger inside him that he is not ready to throw out. The throat reacts to this with the appearance of an inflammatory process. A man does not express himself and his feelings, cannot stand up for himself and ask for something;

8) Herpes . Diseases of the oral cavity are directly related to a biased attitude towards people. In the subconscious, a person carries stinging words and expressions, accusations against other people that he does not express to them;

9) Uterine bleeding . It is a symbol of departing joy. It is necessary to get rid of the grievances and anger that has accumulated over the years in order to bring joy to life and get rid of problems;

10) Nausea, vomiting . The psychosomatic background of this phenomenon lies in the rejection and non-digestion of the world. Another reason may lie in subconscious fears, and this is precisely what is considered the main cause of toxicosis in pregnant women;

11) Hemorrhoids, anal fissures . The problems that are associated with the anus indicate that it is difficult for a person to get rid of the old and unnecessary in his life. Each time a person becomes angry, experiences fear and pain of loss;

12) Thrush and other diseases of the genital organs. Genitals are a symbol of principles, so the problems associated with them - the fear of not being at the top, the insecurity of their attractiveness. Also, thrush can occur when a person feels aggression towards a representative of the opposite sex, or a specific sexual partner;

13) Allergy, urticaria . Such diseases indicate a lack of self-control. Therefore, unconsciously, the body begins to bring out feelings and emotions that have been suppressed: irritation, resentment, anger;

14) Kidney . The illnesses of this organ are caused by a combination of such emotions: criticism and condemnation, anger and anger, resentment and hatred. A person thinks that he is pursued by failure and he does everything in life wrong, thereby dishonoring himself in the eyes of others. Also, the condition of the kidneys may reflect fear of the future and its further well-being;

15) Gall bladder . People with gallbladder problems tend to harbor anger, irritability, and anger at other people. This provokes inflammatory processes in the organ, stagnation of bile and biliary dyskinesia, which soon leads to the appearance of stones.

This is not the whole list of diseases that may have a psychosomatic origin. There are innumerable numbers of them.

The main thing is to remember that all the negative thoughts and emotions that a person holds within himself can lead to violations of the human nervous and immune systems. As a result of this, a huge number of health problems appear, therefore, all your negative emotions, feelings and grievances must certainly be thrown out.

Full table on Sinelnikov

Hidden text

Alcoholism - a feeling of loneliness, worthlessness, unwillingness to live, lack of attention and affection.

Allergy - disbelief in one's own strengths, transferred stress, feeling of fear.

Apathy - resistance to feelings, fear, drowning out of one's self, the indifferent attitude of others.

Apoplexy stroke, seizure - flight from the family, from oneself, from life.

Appendicitis is a fear of life.

Arthritis, gout - lack of love from others, increased self-criticism, resentment, resentment, anger.

Asthma - suffocating love, suppression of feelings, fear of life, evil eye.

Insomnia - fear, guilt, distrust.

Rabies, rabies - anger, aggression.

Eye diseases - anger, frustration.

Diseases of the stomach - fear.

Dental diseases - prolonged indecision, inability to make a clear decision.

Diseases of the legs - fear of the future, fear of being unrecognized, fixation on childhood injuries.

Diseases of the nose - resentment, crying, a sense of insignificance, it seems to you that no one notices you and does not take seriously, the need for someone else's help.

Liver diseases - anger, chronic resentment, self-justification, constant bad mood.

Kidney disease - boredom, anger at oneself, self-criticism, lack of emotions, disappointment, chagrin, failure, failure, mistake, failure, failure, react like a small child, self-criticism, failure.

Diseases of the back - lack of emotional support, lack of love, guilt, fear generated by lack of money.

Sore knees - pride, selfishness, fear.

Sores, wounds, ulcers - hidden anger.

Warts - belief in one's own ugliness, evil eye, envy.

Bronchitis - disputes, abuse in the family, a heated atmosphere in the house.

Varicose veins - loss of strength, processing, overload.

Sexually transmitted diseases - mistreatment of other people, the belief that sex is a dirty business.

Excess weight - fear, the need for protection, denial of oneself.

Gray hair - stress, anxiety, overwork.

Hemorrhoids are an experience of the past.

Hepatitis - fear, anger, hatred.

Herpes - guilty feelings for thinking about sex, shame, waiting for punishment from Above.

Gynecological diseases - unwillingness to be a woman, self-dislike, rude, inattentive attitude of men.

Deafness - unwillingness to listen to others, stubbornness.

Pus, inflammation - thoughts of revenge, anxiety about the evil done, feeling of remorse.

Headaches - fear, self-criticism, a sense of one's own.

Depression is anger, a sense of hopelessness, envy.

Diabetes is jealousy, the desire to control the lives of other people.

Diarrhea, diarrhea - fear.

Dysentery is fear, intense anger.

Halitosis - gossip, dirty thoughts.

Jaundice - envy, jealousy.

Gallstones - bitterness, heavy thoughts, pride.

Constipation - conservative thoughts.

Goiter, thyroid gland - a feeling of hatred for being hurt, suffering, excessive sacrifice, a feeling that you are being blocked in life.

Itching - remorse, remorse, unfulfilled desires.

Heartburn - fear, intense fear.

Impotence - fear of failure in bed, excessive tension, guilt, anger at the previous partner, fear of the mother.

Infection - irritation, anger, chagrin.

Spinal curvature - fear, engagement with old ideas, distrust of life, lack of courage to admit one’s mistakes.

Cough - a desire to attract the attention of others.

Climax - fear of age, fear of loneliness, fear of not being more desirable, rejection of oneself, hysteria.

Skin diseases - anxiety, fear.

Colic, sharp pains - anger, irritation, chagrin.

Colitis - inflammation of the mucous membrane of the colon - too demanding parents, feelings of oppression, lack of love and affection, lack of sense of security.

A lump in the throat is fear.

Conjunctivitis - anger, frustration, frustration.

High blood pressure - worries about the past.

Low blood pressure - lack of love in childhood, defeatist moods, disbelief in one's own strengths.

Nail biting - nervousness, upset plans, anger at parents, self-criticism and devouring oneself.

Laryngitis - inflammation of the larynx - fear of expressing one’s opinion, indignation, resentment, indignation against someone else’s authority.

Lungs - depression, grief, sadness, trouble, failure.

Leukemia - inability to enjoy life. Fever - anger, anger.

Tinea shingles - fear and tension, too much sensitivity.

Mastitis is an excessive concern for someone, super care.

Uterus, mucosal disease - fear, disappointment.

Meningitis - anger, fear, disagreement in the family.

Menstrual problems are the rejection of one's feminine nature, guilt, fear, attitude to the genitals as something dirty and shameful.

Migraine - dissatisfaction with one’s life, sexual fears.

Myopia, myopia - fear of the future.

Thrush, candidiasis - a love of controversy, excessive demands on people, distrust of everyone, suspicion, a feeling of disappointment, hopelessness, anger.

Motion sickness is the fear of death.

Wrong posture, head landing - fear of the future, fear.

Indigestion - fear, horror, anxiety.

Accidents - belief in violence, fear of talking aloud about your problems.

Sagging features - a sense of resentment and resentment in relation to their own lives.

Saggy buttocks - loss of strength, self-confidence.

Gluttony is fear, self-condemnation.

Baldness is fear, tension, the desire of everyone and everything to control.

Fainting, loss of consciousness - fear.

Burns - anger, irritation, anger.

Tumors - remorse, repentance, obsessive thoughts, old insults, corrode indignation, indignation.

A brain tumor is stubbornness, unwillingness to accept anything new in one’s life.

Osteoporosis is a feeling of lack of support in this life.

Otitis - earaches - anger, reluctance to hear, scandals in the family.

Belching is fear.

Pancreatitis - anger and frustration, dissatisfaction with life.

Paralysis is fear, horror.

Paralysis of the facial nerve - unwillingness to express their feelings, tight control over their anger.

Parkinson's disease is fear and a desire to control everything and everyone.

Food poisoning - a sense of defenselessness, falling under the control of others.

Pneumonia (pneumonia) - despair, fatigue from. life, emotional wounds that are not treatable.

Gout - lack of patience, anger, the need for dominance.

The pancreas is a lack of joy in life.

Polio - extreme jealousy.

Cuts - violation of their own principles.

Loss of appetite - feelings, self-hatred, fear of life, evil eye.

Leprosy is an inability to manage one’s life, confidence in one’s worthlessness or lack of spiritual purity.

Prostate - fault, sexual pressure from the outside, male fears.

Colds - self-hypnosis “I have a cold three times every winter”, confusion in my thoughts, confusion in my head.

Acne is dissatisfaction with oneself.

Psoriasis - skin - fear of being offended, wounded, mortification of one’s feelings.

Cancer is a deep wound, a long feeling of indignation and resentment, grief, sorrow and self-devouring, hatred, corruption, curses.

Wounds - anger and blame on yourself.

Stretching - anger and resistance, unwillingness to move in life in a certain direction.

Rickets - lack of love and security.

Vomiting is the fear of the new.

Rheumatism - a feeling that you are being made a victim, deceived, tormented, persecuted, lack of love, a chronic feeling of bitterness, indignation, indignation, resentment.

Spleen - spleen, anger, irritation, obsessions.

Hay fever - an accumulation of emotions, a persecution mania, wine.

Heart - emotional problems, experiences, lack of joy, hardening of the heart, tension, overwork, stress.

Bruising, bruising - punishment for oneself.

Sclerosis - hardness of heart, iron will, lack of flexibility, fear, anger.

Decreased thyroid function - concession, failure. Feeling hopelessly depressed.

A jaw muscle spasm is anger, a desire to control everything, a refusal to openly express one’s feelings.

Cramps are a strain of thoughts due to fear.

Adhesions on the stomach - fear.

AIDS - denial of oneself, sexual self-incrimination, strong belief in one's “bad”.

Stomatitis - censure, reproaches, tormenting a person's words.

Cramps, cramps - tension, fear, constriction.

Stoop - a feeling that you carry a heavy burden on your shoulders, defenselessness and helplessness.

Rash - a desire to attract attention, irritation, small fears.

Tachycardia - heart - fear.

Tick \u200b\u200b- eyes - fear, a feeling that someone is constantly watching you.

Large intestine - confused thoughts, layering of the past.

Tonsillitis - inflammation of the tonsils - fear, suppressed emotions, stifled creativity.

Nausea is fear.

Injuries - anger at oneself, guilt.

Birth injuries are all from a past life.

Tuberculosis - selfishness, cruel, ruthless ”painful thoughts, revenge.

Tuberculosis of the skin, lupus - anger, inability to fend for itself.

An enlargement of the thyroid gland is an extreme disappointment in the fact that you are not able to do what you want. All the time the realization of others, not myself. The fury that went overboard.

Acne - a feeling that you are dirty and nobody likes you, small flashes of anger.

Stroke, paralysis - refusal to give in, resistance, it is better to die than to change.

Choking, attacks - fear.

Animal bites - anger, need for punishment.

Insect bites - guilt over little things.

Insanity - fleeing the family, avoiding life problems.

Urethra, inflammation is anger.

Fatigue - boredom, lack of love for one’s business.

Ears, ringing - stubbornness, unwillingness to listen to someone, unwillingness to hear the inner voice.

Phlebitis, inflammation of the veins - anger and frustration, blaming others for limitations in life and lack of joy in it.

Frigidity - fear, denial of pleasure, pleasure, the belief that sex is bad, insensitive partners, fear of the father.

Boils - anger, constant boiling and boiling inside.

Snoring - persistent refusal to get rid of old patterns.

Cellulite - long-lasting anger and a sense of self-punishment, attachment to pain, fixation on the past, fear of choosing your own path in life.

Jaw, problems - anger, resentment, resentment, resentment, revenge.

Neck - stubbornness, rigidity, inflexibility, inflexibility, refusal to look at a question from different angles.

Thyroid - humiliation; I can never do what I want. When is my turn.

Eczema is an extremely strong contradiction to something, aversion to something outsider.

Enuresis is a fear of parents.

Epilepsy - a feeling of persecution, a feeling of struggle, violence against oneself.

Stomach ulcer - fear, faith in one's “badness”.

Barley is anger.

Video

A man from childhood, feeling loneliness, inner, constant and total. He is always alone with whoever I am.

At some point, he develops a very close relationship (person, organization, idea), he identifies with them, merging, and on the other hand, it is too good to be true. The feeling that all good things will end. Too good to last forever.

Relationships are broken.

Since the meaning of life was in this object, a person does not see the further meaning of existence, if this is not there, then I do not need everything else. And man chooses to die.

The theme of betrayal.

* Any "deadly disease" in particular cancer is a message from our inner self (soul, if you like, self, unconscious, God, the Universe): "You will not live the way you were. The old person will inevitably die. You can die psychologically like an old person and be reborn as a new person. Or die with your principles and old life. ”

Key points of the mechanism of the disease:

1. A person from childhood feeling inner loneliness (constant and total). "I'm always alone with whoever I am."

2. At some point, he has a very close relationship (person, organization, idea), he is identified with them, to the level of merger, they become the meaning of his life. On the other hand, the thought gnaws at him - "it's too good to be true." The feeling that all good things will end. "Too good to last forever."

3. Relationships are broken.

4. Since the meaning of life was in this object, a person does not see the further meaning of existence - "if this is not there, then I do not need everything else." And internally, on an unconscious level, a person decides to die.

5. There is always a theme of betrayal. Or the feeling that he was betrayed. Or in the event of loss (of an idea, person, organization), the basic idea of \u200b\u200b“living on further means betraying this bright past / relationship. Loss is not always physical, often it is a psychological loss, a subjective feeling.

The self-destruction mechanism starts quickly enough. Frequent cases of late diagnosis. Since these people are used to being alone - they are from a series of “strong and persistent”, very heroic people, they never ask for help and do not share their experiences. It seems to them that being strong always adds bonuses to them in life, because they are so valued. They "do not want to load anyone." Ignore their experiences - they endure and are silent. Ministers. Mortality is that a person cannot step over this "loss." In order to live, he needs to become different, change his beliefs, begin to believe in something else.

The more a person follows "his own righteousness, his overvalued ideas, ideals, principles," the faster the tumor grows and he dies. Clear dynamics. It happens if an idea is more valuable than life.

1. It is extremely important for the patient to know that he is terminally ill. But everyone pretends that everything is fine. This is very harmful. The very "mortality" of the disease is the door to recovery. The sooner a person finds out, the greater the chance to stay alive.

2. The diagnosis itself is therapeutic - it gives the right to change the rules of the game, the rules become not so important.

3. Old principles inevitably eat up (metastasis). If a person chooses to live, everything can be fine. Sometimes an "imaginary funeral" with a symbolic beginning of a new life helps.

Therapy features:

1. Change of beliefs (work with values).

2. Separate study of the topic of the future, for the sake of which he should live, setting goals. Goal setting (the meaning of life) for which you want to live. The goal in which he wants to invest entirely.

3. Work with the fear of death. Increasing the psychological resistance of the body. So that fear activates energy, and not weakens.

4. The legitimization of emotional needs. Clearly make it clear that despite the “coolness” they, like all people, may need support and proximity, it is important to learn to ask and receive them.

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